Friday, August 6, 2010

Bhel Puri.

This post resembles one. A mix of tangy, sweet and sour days that constituted these past couple of weeks.

Firstly, I've graduated!!!! Yay! (Okay, so I missed my convocation, and haven't seen my degree certificate but the fact that I have a degree certificate lying somewhere with my name on it is good enough, thankyouverymuch.) It's taken a year for us to get it though. The enthusiasm doesn't seem to be as high as it was on our 'graduation' day, but still. It feels good to hold a Beeyay degree! (For further reference on how much this Beeyay degree matters to me, kindly read up the Beeyay trilogy - one for each year of my Beeyay - Beeyay I , Beeyay II and Beeyay III)

I'm working on a Yemmay (MA) post soon too. Just haven't found enough people to make me indignant enough for it, which may be a good thing - I guess education does earn you respect.

And then there was Friendship Day. Remember how we'd all make friendship bands in school? And then tie them to 'only our close friends' and compare it with others to see who had the maximum on their hands. Somehow, I never really believed in the 'Friendship's Day' idea. Not because I think I everyday is a friendship day or any of that jazz. But more because it forced me to tie bands on only certain people. I mean, how long would those bands last anyway? (I've saved some and used them to tie on my baggage for easy identification) Do you still have the bands people gave you in school? Or even better, do you remember which band was given by whom?

So Friendship is more than just a band (unless you're in the cast of Kuch Kuch Hota Hai). My friends today are scattered far and wide, and we may not really message one another on this day, but are still close enough to be able to message any day, at any time, without giving it a second thought. That's what truly matters, I guess.

Friendship is when you feel so low that you just send a sad smiley to your friend sitting cities apart and she immediately sends one back and calls.

It is when you're struggling to reverse your car, and your friends are standing behind you, glaring at anyone who dares honks at you (including noting their license number...and bothering to remember it hours later!).

It is when you really want to eat an ice-cream at this parlour and you're so sure it was designed for romantic couples, but your friends insist on you trying it out anyway, and grab spoons along with you and attack it with a gusto that would've put soldiers of the World Wars to shame.

It is when you know that if you go online, there's always a friend waiting to share their day with you, to hear out yours, and discuss everything under the sun and beyond.

So cheers to the new age friendships - that don't need bands or vows to reaffirm the connection.


Okay, after all the mush, let's turn to slush. Last week, I waded through the slush to land up at Karol Bagh. Brilliant place it is! Like the Punjabi T.Nagar-land! The beautiful beautiful clothes there brought out a sigh from even a tomboyish cynic like me! (I only have one 'beautiful clothes', FYI...to prove the tomboyish cynic jibe.)

And it has been raining all day all week. It started off by being very romantic (and I mean this in the connotation of relating with nature, not love), and now it has turned plain boring. I mean, everyday? Enough, ok? Delhi, please dry up your tears and bring forth sunshine. You washed away your summer grime very well.

Oh, and have you all been reading about the Commonwealth Games? We're all proof to how much the progress really is. I shudder to think how it'll all be completed. It's like a ghastly assignment that's due in a week's time and you've no idea how to go about it. Let's just hope they do know how to go about it, and will do it. Each day seems like a stab on their report card, and makes even people like me follow the reports anxiously, wondering how our country will be able to pull it off. It's turning me into a Jingoist, and how.

So these past couple of days was truly a Bhel Puri. Since I cannot eat it (do you know how lethal it is to eat anything raw from outside, especially in Typhoid-Jaundice ridden Monsoon in Delhi?) I figured I'd metaphorically use it to convert yet another self-obsessed bunch of thoughts into a blog post. :-)

10 comments:

sneha said...

Aww.. :) (happy tears)

Vaishnavi said...

You have no words? Apart from Aw? I'm stunned now! Sneha- I have to make fun of my everything my friend says/does- Prabhu is Speechless???

Wow! i guess this post really meant something then :-) :-) Yay!

sneha said...

Ha I like that middle name! :)

They all meant something, you dolt! Just that it's fun-ner to be sarcastic than mushy on the Net! :D

Unknown said...

i love reading yur blog..yu write soo well :) am a big fan of yurs :)

KS said...

Punjabi T-Nagar.. ! Wohoo!! I like that... I still cant believe Karol Bagh gave you those vibes.. !

Vaishnavi said...

@ Sneha: Yes yes. I know they all meant something. If they didn't we'd not really be on talking terms, you know? :-P (I'm still looking at my 10% treat though- for reference, check thy mail.)

@ MahaSwetha! (I know it's been YEARS but I was dying to call you that!!!!) Thank you so much!! :) :) Keep coming and reading and compliment...I mean...commenting!! :) ;)


@Karan: Didya get to go to T Nagar at all? If we'd not gone to Marina, I'd have probably suggested T Nagar. You should read my T Nagar post to believe it. I love the place...and Karol Bagh instantly reminded me of it...but the Punjabi version!

words maketh me said...

i wonder who it was who glared at the honkers...?..must be some Real GOOd frenz...i mean , Come on , who does That for friends aajkal...?.....Uu Must find urself lucky to have them.....n i m sure They find themselves happy to have a friend who writes so damn gud stuffs bout them in Her blog!!!
(FYI--the number was 844!!)...

n call us next time u wanna attack an ice-cream....

also, i still remember who gave me which friendship band....n i hv a store of them....i might one day show them to my five kids...n Gloat!!!!

Unknown said...

*sniff sniff*... seems like a very ishmotional fraandship week now, shishter :)
( also, u havent seen the DL 8844 bike again, have you? )

sneha said...

"@ MahaSwetha! (I know it's been YEARS but I was dying to call you that!!!!) Thank you so much!! :) :) Keep coming and reading and compliment...I mean...commenting!! :) ;)"

so despo man.. get a life! o wait.. i forgot you don't have one!!

you see what I mean about the sarcasm ;)

Vaishnavi said...

@ Indu-Mirage : Yeeeay! Go Glovepower! :D <3


@Sneha: FINALLY! The Sneha-I have to make fun of everything my friend says/does-Prabhu is BACK!

P.S. Anyone else reading this would probably hate you for being so mean to me :P Life or no life! :P